confident women's mindset

can do them myself, but fun when someone does them for me 

be the self person around me 

type of woman i want to be 

who do i want to attract 

easy to be strong and confident when haven't been torn down 

stronger when you have reasons to be insecure and you're not 

been through difficult things, BUT have a choice to react - to the situation 

will i grow or put up a wall and shrivel 

3 compliments that works every time validate 

- such a guy 

- i feel safe around you, i like that (masculinity, protection, more of a man) 

- you're so great, i feel bad for other women i get to spend all my time with you (special )

most romantic

1 - candle lit dinner

2 - hand written note 

 unromantic romantic 

1. see their favorite movie (put initiative to see it, book the ticket)

2. surprise them at office with their favorite lunch (bring it to the office)

3. bubble candle music bath, and leave the place, give space

4. take her mom out to lunch (take the check, show a great time)

conversationalist

1. get out of your head

2. pay attention to the environment

3. have an opinion about the happening in the environment 

"am i right in saying ... "